If you are struggling to find gay friends in general
There is something more to our relationship than physical. In bigger cities, these are options, where I live, things to do or clubs to join are pretty much non-existent. That's what I did and it worked. It usually transfers from mother-to-son, but with its count and I am the only member of my biological family to have it, this is a rare and destructive series of disabilities.
My experience with churches as been mixed.
Cock caressed by two aggressive gays
Younger people can be more concerned about reactions and acceptance among their peer group, and worry about whether or not they might be bullied. Romantic love complicates things, but it may not mean the end of the friendship if you approach it carefully.
Simply including one or two other people can often easily disarm an unhealthy dynamic.